What is charity customer relationship management? Your complete how-to guide

Think of charity customer relationship management as your organisation's relationship roadmap - it helps you navigate the journey from first contact to lifelong supporter, without losing people along the way. In a nutshell, great charity customer relationship management focuses on nurturing genuine connections with the wonderful people who support your cause. The real magic happens when your supporters are treated like individuals, complete with their own preferences and passions.

Here’s something you might not expect a software provider to say, but here's what catches some people out: they think charity customer relationship management is just about buying the right software and storing data in it. It's not – but it sure helps. Primarily, it's about fundamentally changing how your organisation thinks about and manages relationships. Charity CRM software – like Donorfy - supports and enhances that process, making it simpler, manageable and scalable.

Next, let’s clear something else up - charity customer relationship management vs constituent relationship management

You might hear both "charity customer relationship management" and "constituent relationship management" used to describe what is, essentially, the same thing.

In reality, most charities are actively practicing constituent relationship management - they're managing relationships with a wide range of stakeholders, not just donors. In fact, within Donorfy, we refer to supporters as constituents! "constituent relationship management" is technically more accurate since "constituents" better describes the various stakeholders' charities work with.

However, the term "charity customer relationship management" is more commonly used and searched for.

Types of constituent charities typically manage in their charity CRM:

• Individual donors and regular givers
• Volunteers 
• Members
• Corporate partners and sponsors
• Grant-making foundations and trusts
• Local government contacts and policy makers
• Partner organisations and collaborators
• Awareness and other advocates

Whether you call it charity customer relationship management or constituent relationship management, the key is taking a strategic approach to all your important relationships.

For most charities, starting with your core supporters - like donors and members - and expanding to include other stakeholders as you grow makes practical sense. Modern charity CRM systems can handle the full range from day one.

Step 1: Start with your supporter journey

How do people first discover you? What's their experience like when they donate or apply to volunteer?

Where do they typically fall off the wagon?

Here's a practical exercise that's always interesting: grab a colleague and walk through your supporter experience from their perspective. Try donating on your website at 11pm on a Sunday (when lots of people actually give). Sign up to volunteer and see what happens next. Subscribe to your newsletter as a complete newcomer would.

You'll probably discover some gaps in your current approach, because everyone does. These are a good thing to prioritise improving; there's no point perfecting your email sequences if your donation process is putting people off!

Step 2: Establish data quality standards

Your charity customer relationship management success depends heavily on data quality. Poor data affects many things across organisations, from AI tools being effective, to irrelevant communications, missed opportunities and frustrated supporters who receive duplicate or inappropriate messages.

Essential data cleaning priorities:

• Eliminate duplicate records systematically
• Standardise address and contact information formatting
• Verify addresses using Royal Mail's Postcode Address File (charities get free access)
• Update deceased supporter records appropriately
• Consolidate multiple records for the same individual

Rather than attempting to clean everything simultaneously, focus on your most valuable supporter segments first. This approach allows you to develop effective processes that can be scaled across your entire database.

Step 3: Develop meaningful supporter segmentation

Some charities segment supporters based solely on donation amounts, which is undoubtedly useful. But, effective charity customer relationship management calls for deeper segmentation based on engagement preferences and relationship dynamics. Not all supporters are the same, so outreach shouldn’t be either! For example:

• Mission advocates: People that actively promote your cause through social media and word-of-mouth.
• Consistent contributors: Give regularly but perhaps prefer minimal communication
• Corporate connectors: Professional contacts who might influence workplace giving or partnerships
• Skills-based supporters: Offer professional expertise alongside financial support
• Event enthusiasts: Prefer face-to-face engagement through events and activities
• Digital natives: Engage primarily through online channels and social media

In Donorfy specifically, this is done by applying tags to group like-minded supporters together. Understanding these preferences enables you to deliver relevant, appreciated content that connects with each group, rather than generic mass communications that can miss the mark.

North West Air Ambulance are a great example of a charity that has embraced this approach, using smart segmentation to build stronger, more personalised relationships. Hear more from Rob at the charity in this short video:

Step 1: Nail your welcome journey 

Your welcome process is often where charity customer relationship management either succeeds brilliantly or falls at the first hurdle. Research shows that supporters who feel properly welcomed in their first 90 days are much more likely to stick around long-term. A good charity CRM will be able to automate this process too, like Donorfy does with automation triggers.

Your welcome sequence could look like this:

Within 24 hours:

• Send a proper welcome message (not just a generic receipt)
• Explain clearly what happens next and when
• Share a recent impact story that shows their support in action
• Make it easy for them to update their preferences

Within the first week:

• Follow up with something genuinely valuable (not another ask for money)
• This could be your impact newsletter, a helpful video or an invitation to a supporter event
• Include simple ways for them to connect further if they want to

Within the first month:

• Check in to see how they'd like to hear from you going forward
• Share a success story that wouldn't have happened without supporters like them
• Offer additional ways to get involved that match their interests

Step 2: Master the art of personalised communication

Here's where charity customer relationship management technology really shines. As mentioned, modern CRM systems can use your data to automate much of this personalisation.

Tricks that work:

1. Reference their giving history: "Thanks to supporters like you, who gave during our Christmas appeal ..."
2. Acknowledge their location: "We know you care about [local issue] in [their area] ..."
3. Respect their preferences: "We're sending this by post because we know you prefer proper letters ..."

The golden rule: Every communication should pass the "so what?" test. If a supporter reads it and thinks "so what?", you need to make it more relevant to them specifically.

National Churches Trust are a great example of effective personalisation tools in action - you can read their story here.

Handle lapsed supporters properly 

Most charities give up on lapsed supporters quickly, missing valuable opportunities to reconnect. Good charity customer relationship management systems make this type of sophisticated re-engagement possible through automated sequences and intelligent timing, whilst still maintaining the personal touch that makes the difference.

Your win-back sequence could:

• Share what's changed: Show the progress you've made since they last engaged
• Make reconnection easy: Offer various ways to get involved again at different levels
• Respect their choice: If they don't respond after 3 - 4 attempts over several months, give them space

Often, people lapse for perfectly practical reasons (new job, house move, financial pressure). Your win-back campaigns should acknowledge this reality and make it easy for them to re-engage when they're ready.

Use your data to predict what supporters want

Once you've established solid foundations, charity customer relationship management technology becomes invaluable for spotting patterns in supporter behaviour and preferences. For example:

• Seasonal patterns: Some people donate at exactly the same time each year
• Event preferences: Others prefer giving at events rather than responding to postal appeals
• Engagement triggers: Supporters who increase giving after receiving detailed impact reports
• Communication styles: People who engage more with video content versus written updates

Use these patterns to time your communications better and offer more relevant opportunities. There's no point sending a major gifts proposal to someone who only ever gives £10 at Christmas – but they might be perfect for your member recruitment campaign!

Get stewardship right

Proper stewardship isn't just saying thank you – it's showing supporters the ongoing impact of their involvement and making them feel genuinely valued.

Here’s some tips:

1. Share specific outcomes, not just activities ("Your donation helped 12 families find permanent housing" beats "Your donation supported our housing programme")
2. Use real stories with proper permission from beneficiaries
3. Show each supporter's role in the bigger picture
4. Acknowledge contributions beyond money too (time, skills and advocacy)
5. Make it timely and relevant to their level of involvement

Choose the right tools for your charity customer relationship management

What should you be looking for in a charity CRM?

Firstly, don't get distracted by fancy features you'll never use. Focus on systems that do the basics brilliantly:

Absolute must-haves:

• Easy data import and export
• Reporting you can actually understand and use
• Integration with your existing tools (website, accounting software, email platform)
• Decent customer support
• Automation and workflow capabilities
• Simple segmentation tools

Nice-to-haves:

• Social media integration features
• Built-in event management tools
• Grant management functionality
• Comprehensive volunteer management

Promote team buy in

The most expensive charity customer relationship management system is one that your team doesn’t use!

Here's some tips on getting genuine buy-in:

1. Make it relevant: Show each team member exactly how the system makes their specific job easier and more effective
2. Start small: Don't overwhelm people with every feature on day one
3. Celebrate wins: Share success stories when the system helps achieve something brilliant!
4. Get support: If you need help from your CRM provider, ask for it. Donorfy’s support team have backgrounds working in charities, they've been in your shoes before!

Focus on the long game: building sustainable relationships

Effective charity customer relationship management is about building support that lasts, not just maximising short-term income. Look for signs that your relationships are genuinely deepening:

• Supporters engaging with multiple aspects of your work
• People referring friends and family to your charity
• Volunteers staying involved for longer periods
• Donors increasing their gifts over time without being asked
• Supporters becoming active advocates in their communities

Mistake 1: Treating everyone the same way

Just because someone can afford to give £1000 doesn't necessarily mean they want VIP treatment. Some major donors prefer simple thank you emails, whilst some smaller donors love detailed impact reports. Your charity customer relationship management should reflect individual preferences, not just donation amounts.

Mistake 2: Overwhelming new supporters

There's nothing worse than signing up to support a charity and immediately being bombarded with emails, phone calls and postal appeals. Start gently and let supporters choose to receive more communication rather than hitting them with everything from day one.

Mistake 3: Writing off lapsed supporters too quickly

Just because someone hasn't given recently, doesn't mean they've lost interest in your cause. Life circumstances change, but emotional connection to causes often remains strong. Good charity customer relationship management keeps the door open for, and encourages, re-engagement.

Mistake 4: Only focusing on the donations

Your biggest advocate might not be your biggest donor. Someone who shares every social media post, volunteers regularly and refers friends to your cause might be worth more in the long run than someone who gives a large annual donation but never engages otherwise.

Embrace new technologies sensibly

AI and automation tools are becoming increasingly accessible to charities, but don't rush to jump on the next bandwagon. Focus on solutions that solve your actual challenges:

• Predictive analytics: To spot supporters likely to lapse or increase their involvement
• Automated workflows: To ensure consistent follow-up and stewardship
• Social listening tools: To understand how supporters talk about your cause online
• Mobile optimisation: To meet supporters where they actually are

Stay human whilst leveraging technology effectively

As charity customer relationship management systems become more sophisticated, the goal is to use technology to enhance personal connections and free up time for meaningful relationship building. The best CRM systems handle routine tasks automatically whilst flagging opportunities for personal outreach and engagement.

To round up what's mentioned above, here’s a reminder of your first steps:

1. Audit your current approach: Map your supporter journey and identify the biggest gaps that need fixing
2. Clean your data systematically: Start with your most important supporters and work outwards
3. Create meaningful segments: Move beyond donation amounts to engagement preferences
4. Improve your welcome process: This is where you'll see the biggest immediate impact

Remember, charity customer relationship management isn't about achieving perfection from day one. It's about consistently improving how you understand, communicate with and value the brilliant people who support your work.

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